It sounds easy to have a sugar daddy, right? Some older rich man will just pay for your company. And you can use that money to pay for things you actually enjoy doing instead of selling yourself out to some boring job. Unfortunately, the realities of being a sugar baby are rarely so ideal.
Being a sugar baby is NOT EASY. For one thing, you have to have a likable personality and favorable looks. You don’t need to be a model to be a sugar baby, but you have to keep yourself well kept up. That’s why becoming a sugar baby is also expensive, although you can make a good amount of money, you will also spend a lot on clothes, makeup, and sometimes even travel.
If you are going to have many men after your company, you will also have to learn how to schedule your time. This may not be a job you can easily juggle part-time. You have to keep track of all the “gifts” the men give you and report them on your tax forms, but you can also get tax write-offs for things you deem necessary for your business.
Don’t assume no one will find out; your friends and family are likely to find out eventually. This is not a job you should do if you want it to be a secret. Selling your time to men for money is often stigmatized and it could hurt your relationship with jealous partners or worried family members.
There is also a safety aspect and you must be ready to protect yourself not only physically, but legally. You can’t give out too much personal information because it could make you susceptible to stalking. Learn the laws in your state for the job. Prostitution is illegal in many states so you must make it clear if you engage in sexual acts with these men that they are NOT paying you for sex.
Some women and men have been able to use sugar baby/daddy sites to fund college, a family, or even made it into a career. Although it is often seen as a way to make easy money, there are many risks and drawbacks that you should be aware of before committing to the job. If you think it’s right for you, then be prepared to do your research.
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